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Dec 8, 2004
5 Ways To Reduce Holiday Stress

Copyright 2004 JoAnna Carey, Carey'D Away Enterprises, LLC.
http://www.joannacarey.com \

Are those bells ringing in your ears a sign of holiday cheer
or a sign of too much stress? Don't let this Holiday Season
slip by in a blur of over scheduling. Commit to making
changes -- one step at a time and you'll discover the gift
of a more enjoyable year-end celebration. As you juggle the
complexities of work, home and family, here are 5 simple
steps that may help you become as jolly as ol' St. Nick. 

5. Develop an list of everything you would like to do THIS
Holiday Season, then prioritize in order to get the most
amount of joy from the limited amount of time you have to
spend with family, friends and coworkers. Remember, this
year's priorities may look different than those of holidays
past! 

4. Express gratitude. What a great time of year to thank all
of those people who make your life worth living! Don't let
the hustle and bustle of the season steal away your
opportunity to be thankful for the people, experiences and
events (both good and bad) that made this year unique and
memorable. If you're sending greeting cards, why not add a
personalized message about why you are thankful for having
the recipient in your life.

3. Learn to say NO -- put YOU first sometimes. It's ok to
say no! I repeat: it is ok to say NO! Schedule some "alone
time" during the holidays so you can reduce the temptation
to take on too many responsibilities that may cause a
meltdown at the worst possible moment. 

2. Choose your battles wisely. As the end of the year
quickly approaches, you may be pulled in too many directions
and it may be impossible for you to attend every get
together. Holidays are often full of over taxed emotions so,
rather than succumbing to a confrontation, try to approach
each situation as an opportunity to accommodate the most
important needs of those involved. Express your opinion
about the little things that are causing extra stress
instead of hiding those emotions that may cause your temper
to reach the boiling point. 

1. Life really is about the journey. Savor the moments! That
is a difficult concept for those of us who are always
striving toward a particular goal. Savoring the moment means
allowing yourself enough time to celebrate each activity
before rushing on to the next event. 

BONUS Stress Reducer: The Rat Race Relaxer Book provides 52
stress busting tips -- one for every week of 2005 -- that
will challenge you and your friends to get what you want in
return for running the rat race!

While the keys may appear simple, they are guaranteed to
help you tackle the rat race head-on, and turn it into a
race than can be run --and won-- by charting your own course
rather than navigating someone else's. 

All Rights Reserved. * Adapted from the book Rat Race Relaxer:
Your Potential & The Maze of Life by JoAnna Carey.


JoAnna Carey, aka "The Rat Race Relaxer," is available for
radio, TV and print interviews. She's an energetic, young
entrepreneur who merges her life experience and business
success to perform enjoyable, influential presentations. She
is the producer and host of her own weekly television
program titled The Rat Race Relaxer™ Show and the author of
Rat Race Relaxer: Your Potential & The Maze of Life. Contact
Carey'D Away Enterprises, LLC; http://www.RatRaceRelaxer.com.

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Nov 29, 2004
50 Ways to Find Serenity At The Holidays

(when serenity is the last thing on your mind!)


· Ask yourself…"Am I being too hard on myself?"
· Ask yourself…"What do I have in my life that I can enjoy
at this moment?"
· Ask yourself …"How important is it?"
· Ask yourself…"What is my gut telling me?"
· Ask yourself…"Are my goals or expectations realistic?"
· Ask yourself…"Am I considering all my options?"
· Ask yourself…"What is it about this situation that I can
do something about?"
· Ask yourself…"Who in my family or support circle can help
me now?"
· Ask yourself…"What is it about this situation that I can
manage?"
· Ask yourself…"What can I change about my attitude?"
· Ask yourself…"Do I really want to be doing this?"
· Ask yourself…"What needs to be done first?"
· Ask supportive family members for support.
· Trust that you know what's best for you.
· How's your integrity? Are your thoughts, feelings and
actions matching? If not, what can you do about it?
· Forgive yourself...being angry hurts your soul.
· Buy yourself...some flowers or send yourself a card!
· Forgive someone...being angry uses lots of energy.
· Happiness is...enjoying what you have.
· Change negative self-talk into positive affirmations...I
am ____________.
· Tell someone who cares about you what is bothering you.
· Call a friend…to talk or go out for ________________.
· Call someone...to let them know that you are thinking
about them.
· Call someone...Go out to lunch, for coffee or for a walk.
· Breath...take 3 deep breaths. Hold it to the count of 3.
Slowly exhale. Do this 2 times or until you calm down
· Go to the movies, concert or play.
· Call a friend for support.
· Find a quiet place to read a book.
· Get a ...massage, manicure or pedicure.
· Connect...Join a club or organization. Volunteer in some
way.
· Make a list of the 10 things you're tolerating.
· Read a book for 30-minutes.
· Write a list of the things you are grateful for.
· Learn how to say NO! (without feeling guilty!)
· Do absolutely nothing!
· Sit down. Possibly listen to some enjoyable music with a
cup of your favorite beverage.
· Rent a movie that makes you laugh.
· Speed up or slow down. Only you know which you need to
do!
· Get enough sleep...take a nap if you need to.
· Exercise...go for a walk by yourself or with someone you
love. Do whatever type of exercise you're willing to do.
· Spend 30 minutes doing something you really, really
enjoy.
· Purchase something...that you can afford and want.
· Do something on your "To Complete" list... or start a
list.
· Find a quiet place...go into the bathroom and lock the
door if you must! Close your eyes for a few moments and
think about something positive.
· Do something special for someone else...and don't tell
them what you did!
· Draw or color. Remember that your children's books
belong to them so ask permission!
· Meditate and pray... By yourself or as part of a group.
· Remember...what my life purpose is.
· Remember...that no one is perfect.
· Saying "no" to others often means saying "yes" to you!

Would you like your very own copy of Serenity Cards?  Free download
available at http://www.coachmaria.com/documents/serenitycards.pdf

© 2004 Maria Marsala, Business Builder and former Wall
Street Trader. "Powering-UP service busine$$es and
their owners". Providing articles, tips, classes, and
business resources in our ezine "SIMPLE Business Steps"
Learn more at http://www.ElevatingYourBusiness.com

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Nov 4, 2004
Keep Yourself Whole

I want to offer you an analogy I learned about when I was a college
student at Duke University. Envision your life as a stool

with legs that represent three critical areas:

· Self- serving your own needs and interests

· Kids- attending to the needs of children and your
relationship
with them

· Relationships with others- nurturing relationships
with a partner,
extended family and friends

If we lose touch with any one leg, the stool will wobble and be
difficult to balance. If we lose touch with two of the legs,

the stool will fall.

In our society, many stools risk wobbling, and eventually falling.
If you stay home full-time, it's easy to let the role of

"mom" take over your life- as you strive to schedule numerous sports
and enrichment activities for your kids and attend to

their needs. If you work full-time, you may find yourself giving
every minute of your free time to your children. In either

case, you risk over-identifying with one role- "mother" and
neglecting others.

If your stool is wobbling, you risk burnout, becoming sick or
injured, or some other sign your body may use to express the
imbalance. You risk becoming detached from others you care about as
well as from your true self and your authentic happiness.

Our kids deserve excellent care, unconditional love and ample
attention. After the foundation is set, however,they grow up

and move on. It's wise for us to make sure we have something vital
left inside when they do.

Although "mom" may be your greatest priority, as it is mine, it is
unlikely the only role you have. You are also an

individual- as well as perhaps a wife, sister, daughter or friend.
Take the time to consider all your roles and whether you

are leaving enough room in your life to nurture them.

Bria Simpson, MA
Life Coach and Parenting Specialist


© 2004 by Bria Simpson
All rights and media reserved.

email: bria@briacoach.com
web:
http://www.briacoach.com Helping moms strengthen and balance their family lives while
rediscovering their own passions and interests.

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Oct 22, 2004
THE GROUND RULES TO PLANNING YOUR LIFE


Life planning requires a holistic approach. By this I mean
you must consider that each area of your life - whether
personal, relationship, family, or career - will affect the
other areas, now or sometime in the future. To be successful
requires planning a life, one that includes your personal
goals, your relationship goals, your family goals, and your
career or business goals.

The first consideration in composing a life is to be brave.
You may have to do radical surgery on yourself. You will
probably find that your basic values as a human being are
sound, but that their expression in the real world will have
to change. Before your children were born you probably had
notions about good parenting. After the children came along,
and with each stage they go through, you probably gain a new
appreciation for how well your own parents handled such a
complicated task. When you were a young adult in your early
twenties, developing a relationship with your new spouse was
based on the needs and goals of youth. Your marriage today,
as an older, wiser couple, may require revamping to keep up
with individual, family, and career development. Even the
career path in which you chose to involve yourself may have
been suited to you at thirty, but at forty-five has lost its
appeal.

When people face a crisis or even just an ordinary problem,
they are tempted to try a simple change. They change jobs,
change spouses, build a new house, and so on. These simple
changes are supposed to make them feel better - and sometimes
they do, for a while. But in the long run the new job
fizzles, the new spouse presents problems remarkably similar
to those the previous spouse presented, and the new house is
still not quite big enough. Rather than waste your time with
pointless changes, compose a life, and plan for meaningful
change. Change your map of reality to include the
possibilities that you (your spouse and your family) are
capable of, even if this involves painful and difficult
work.

Before composing your life plan, it is important to
understand the ground rules. If you jump into a new plan too
quickly, you may be repeating the mistakes of the past. Take
your time. Follow these ground rules. After you have
thoroughly explored the territory, assemble the pieces and
weave the new tapestry.

1. PLAN WITH YOUR SPOUSE AND OTHERS WHO ARE SIGNIFICANT
IN YOUR LIFE. Getting others' feedback is imperative. It
keeps you aware that you are not in this life alone. Even
when you are planning a life goal that seems so personal
that it could not possibly be relevant to anyone but
yourself, ask others for their opinions. Many of your
personal goals can be thwarted by the unexpected demands of
other areas of your life.

2. DEVELOP GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS. Becoming an
excellent communicator will assist you in communicating
with yourself as well as others. As important as these
skills are in learning about the ones you love and work
with, learning to listen to yourself (i.e., to trust your
intuition) will move you toward the most powerful decisions
in your life.

3. BRAINSTORM. Be open to new understandings about the
interdependence of love and work. Look at different models
than what you are used to. Brainstorm as many options as you
can think of for redefining your relationship, yourself,
your family life, and your career.

4. BE OPEN. Let go of all the reasons you should not
or cannot do something. Do not turn away any option while
you are brainstorming. Later, as you develop a plan to
integrate these new notions, you can discard the unworkable
ones. But remember, even the unworkable option today may
prove workable sometime in the future.

5. SHOOT FOR THE MOON. Allow yourself and your
significant others to dream. Plan for the optimum in all
areas of your life. A common mistake is settling for the
average when with a little extra effort you could produce
something extraordinary. You may not get to the moon in all
cases, but you are certain to fail if you never try.

6. PLAN FOR THE WORST. This sounds a little pessimistic,
but the value is in planning. If you have contingency plans,
you feel less threatened by the unknown. However, it is
important to not be guided by your thoughts of the worst
possibilities. Then your plans take on the shape of fear and
failure.

7. BE FLEXIBLE. Ultimately, the life plan you develop
will encompass as many areas of your life as you are aware
of, but no plan is perfect or permanent. Life is full of
surprises. Be prepared to change the plan with the evolution
of yourself as an individual, as a marital partner, as a parent,
and as a businessperson.

By incorporating all of the ground rules for successful life
planning into the development of your life plan, you will
automatically be using your flexibility. The combination of
discussing your dreams with others, practicing your
listening skills, brainstorming, remaining open to all
possibilities, shooting for the moon, and planning for the
worst, puts you in a position to really get to know
yourself. Once this is accomplished, you are able to
utilize this knowledge to shape your personal life plan.

Copyright © 2004 Kathy J. Marshack, Ph.D., P.S.

Kathy J. Marshack, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist with
over thirty years of experience as a marriage & family
therapist. Visit her website -http://www.self-helpcentral.com,
for more of her practical self-help advice. Sign up for her
free ezine for the latest self-help information and special
discounts on wellness products at
http://www.self-helpcentral.com/newsletter.htm.

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Oct 19, 2004
Super Healthy Quesodillas and Workout for Anyone


I have a question for you, how many people do you know who are
struggling with their health like you? Probably more than one.  But
what I want you to do is pick one person that you know who might
follow the program.  I want you to make this person your wellness
buddy.  First get them to sign up for the letter(below) and then the
two of you can discuss the letter and support each other.  You know
I support you, but it is even easier to implement positive change in
your life if someone close to you is doing the same thing.  Not only
will you have someone to talk to about your progress, having someone
else keeping tabs on you will encourage you to stick to the
program.  The program is designed to be easy to implement but every
little bit helps.  Today's recipe is great to share with a friend
and it is quick, easy, delicious and inexpensive to prepare. 
Today's tip is a really simple exercise routine that is designed so
that anyone can follow it.  It takes less than ten minutes and will
energize you. 

Healthy Quesadillas

This recipe is great when you have to make a quick dinner.  Kids
love it.  Instead of reaching for a hot pocket or frozen pizza,
which is loaded with preservatives, you can make these quesadillas
in a few minutes and feel good about your self after.

Whole Wheat Tortillas.  White flour clogs the digestive system and
has been stripped of its nutrients.  It's sometimes called enriched
flour because some nutrients are added back in artificially after
the bleaching process. Anyway, look for whole wheat to be the first
ingredient.  I think they taste the same or better. Try to find
large ones.

Black beans.  I use black beans from a can, you can use dry ones but
then you have to let them sit and soak up water which takes time.
Beans are legumes and legumes have tons of fiber and complex
carbohydrates and essential amino acids.  Black beans also have lots
of protein and are a source of iron. They contain no fat. I also
like this recipe with red kidney beans if you have them.  

Salsa. .  Read the ingredients for the salsa you use, try to pick
one with the least amount of preservatives and artificial
ingredients.*  Or make your own by putting onions and tomatoes in
the food processor with a little cilantro, red pepper, garlic
powder, chili powder, and cumin.

Cheese. (Optional) if you like cheese use a little low fat Mexican
cheese

Guacamole. (Optional) I always liked guacamole but I thought it was
hard to make. I could not have been further from the truth.  At the
store look for an avocado that is ripe by poking it with your finger
it should be soft but not so soft your finger goes through. Avocados
are really healthy; they contain lots of good fat.  Good fat helps
us to lower our cholesterol and protects our heart. To make
guacamole:
You need:
2 avocados
1 Lemon- a good source of vitamin C which helps our immune system
Red and/or black pepper- helps to raise our metabolism
Cumin powder
Garlic Powder
Salt
Cut the avocado in half around the pit and remove the pit. Use a
spoon to scoop out the inside. Put the innards into the food
processor. Squeeze the lemon in a separate bowl so that you can
catch the seeds.  If you have pre-squeezed lemon juice use two or
three tablespoons. Put the juice in the food processor. Add salt,
pepper, garlic and onion powders, and some cumin. Process until
smooth. It takes less than five minutes to make and keeps in the
fridge for a few days. Make it while the quesadillas are cooking. It
is a great complement to the quesadillas or by itself with some corn
chips.

To make the quesadillas:  put a tortilla on a piece of aluminum foil
(for easy clean up) or on a baking sheet. Drain the beans and put
them in a bowl and mush them up with a spoon or fork then make a
layer of bean mush on the tortilla. On top of that put a layer of
salsa and sprinkle a little cheese. Put another tortilla on top and
that's it. Place in a pre- heated oven at 375. They take five to ten
minutes.  They are done when the tortilla looks as brown as you like
it and the cheese is melted. After you are done eating reflect on
how much better it was than a hot pocket.

10 minute Exercise Routine
Yesterday I discussed how wellness has three components: diet and
nutrition, physical activity and mental health. I also said that you
can either try really hard in one segment or try small things in all
segments and have similar results.  So along with eating healthy
recipes like the ones in this news letter I want you to do some sort
exercise every day.  You can go for a walk, bike ride, or swim.  I
have found that there are many great exercise programs on
television's Fit TV(see below) so if you like those, do them, most
are very very effective.

One of the reasons that most of the exercise routines I have tried
have not worked for me is they are too hard or time consuming. I can
always find excuses not to do them.  Also I would get discouraged
when they tell me to touch my toes or do something else I did not
used to be able to do. This one is easy and fun and I usually have
trouble finding a good excuse for not working out. Everyone, no
matter how busy, has 10 minutes. This includes modifications so that
it can be really easy for beginners.  You can do this in front of
the TV if you like. * Check with your doctor before beginning any
exercise routine and don't sue me if you hurt your self.  Any good
exercise routine will have aerobic, stretching and strength training
components.  Aerobics keep the heart and lungs in good condition and
put you body in a mode where it can burn body fat.  Stretching
relieves tension and keeps us from getting hurt as easily.  It also
helps to drain toxins from the body.  Strength training is key to
losing fat because the more muscle mass you have the more fat you
can burn.  Your muscles burn fat even when you are sleeping. This
routine has all three components.

Step one (5 minutes)
Warm up
Find some music that you like and dance for five minutes straight.
Shake your butt and try to move all the parts of you body.  This
will warm up the muscles and joints and start to get some endorphins
(natural pain killers) flowing. Five minutes is about two songs.
Don't dance so hard that you breathe so heavy you cannot talk but
dance hard enough that you feel you heart rate start to rise. That
puts you body in aerobic mode, where you burn body fat.
Step Two (3 minutes)
Stretch.
While you are still standing, do some shoulder rolls. Most of us
store a lot of tension in our shoulders. Slowly roll your shoulders
forward 10 times then back 10 times then forward 10 times then back
again ten times. Now have a seat on the floor where you have room to
lay down. 
While in a seated position slowly try to touch you toes. It's okay
if you cannot if you do it every day you will be able to someday.
Repeat 4 or 5 times reaching for the sky in between.  I did not
touch my toes for the first time until I was in my 20's. Now reach
for one toe and then the other. Reach for the sky in between.

Step Three (2 Minutes)
Strength Training.
Weights and machines are great for targeting specific muscle group
but your own body is the best machine.  Push ups work almost all the
major muscle groups in one motion. I want you to do ten push ups
eventually.  If you can not do a standard push up that's okay.  Put
a pillow under your knees and kneel and push your self up with you
arms.  Start with four or five if that's all you can do. Do NOT
strain your self.  That will make you sore and then you are more
likely to quit. Add one either regular or modified push up every day
until you reach ten.
Once you can do ten regular or modified push ups and are ready to
take it to the next level, slow down. Yes, slow down.  Perhaps
you've seen the ads on TV for six second abs.  By doing the exercise
more slowly we better engage the muscles. I want you to work your
way up to six second push ups. Count one 123456 two 123456 three
123456 etcetera. Start with two seconds and work you way up to six. 
You will feel the difference.

Do this work out for a few days and you will see that it gets easier
each time.  That is because you are getting stronger.  After a few
weeks you will notice results you can see in the mirror.  Combine
this with better food, lots of green tea and water, and a positive
attitude and in a month you will start to be a new person. I
guarantee it.

About the Author
Jason Reischutz is the Editor of Recipe for
Health Newsletter.
This newsletter provides you with my favorite recipes
and health tips. It is a free service of
www.weightlossthroughwellness.bravehost.com
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Oct 12, 2004
Get The Most Out Of Your Day

Kathy Gates, Professional Life coach

Every day is a gift, but some sure don’t seem like it, do they?

Try these 7 tips to help you get the most out of even the
wettest, hottest, traffic-clogged, broken appliance, overdue
bill, out-of-milk, loud, cranky boss days.

1. Try Type-A Style.
It’s not always so much what you do, as “how” you do what you do.
Look for the easier way.  Look for things that can help you.
Yes, you still have to do the laundry, and cook meals, but you
don’t have to make it all consuming.  Keep it simple.  Look for
ways to cut out some steps, like one shampoo instead of 6, and
one grocery day instead of everyday.

2. Attitude Counts.
Yes, you still have to do the laundry, and cook meals (hey,
didn’t we just cover that?) but if you acknowledge yourself for
doing a good job and remind yourself of the higher purpose that
this job is part of, instead of dwelling on the fact that you
“haveto” do it, you’ll feel better about the job itself.

3. Be A Friend.
To yourself, that is.  Just for one day, consciously treat
yourself like you would treat a good friend.  Would you talk to a
friend the way you talk to yourself?  Take care of yourself.  Get
enough sleep, eat in moderation, love yourself, and be kind to
yourself.  You’re important – treat yourself that way.

4. Keep the Past in the Past.
Playing over and over good things in the past makes sense.  It
helps to motivate you.  But if it hurt you, what’s the point of
playing it and hurting over and over?  Actively replace the
negative, draining thoughts with positive, motivating thoughts
instead.  Practice it, and it will become second nature.

5. Build Your Own Dock.
Life is fluid, some good days, some not so good.  Don’t get so
bogged down in the bad that you miss the good.  Prepare yourself
to take advantage of the good things that come your way.  Could
you accept a better job or Mr/Mrs. Right into your life right
now?  If you’re not ahead of the game, you’ll always be playing
catch up.  Build your own dock, so that ship you’re waiting for
has a place to dock.

6. What You See.
If you think the world is a bad place, that’s what you will see.
Every day you create your life, minute by minute, thought by
thought, action by action.  If you eat candy all day, you’ll be
sick.  If you put bad thoughts into your mind all day you’ll be
sick.  Feed your mind good “food”.  Listen to happy songs, watch
happy TV, choose positive friends.  You decide how much your
smile, who you hug, where you go, and what you do.  Choose well.

7. Accept Yourself, Warts and All.
A happy life is being able to accept that you aren’t perfect, and
taking responsibility for how it affects your own life as well as
those around you.  “This is my problem, and this is how I’m
handling it.”  Others will be encouraged by you, and you’ll be
better able to accept that they aren’t perfect either.


Kathy Gates is a Professional Life Coach in Scottsdale AZ.  I
help people deal with the stress of every day living in a more
organized and efficient manner.  Get more information at my
website Real Life Coach, http://www.reallifecoach.com/ and sign
up for the newsletter.

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Oct 6, 2004
Some Guidelines for Time Discipline:

1. Get up 15 minutes earlier and know what you are going to wear
that day.

2. Increase your reading and writing skills...learn to read
faster and write notes more promptly.

3. Develop the habit of making good notes. Keep reference notes
to guide you in your activities.

4. Be decisive - act fast.

5. Control your telephone habits (self discipline).

6. Don't get bogged down in details. "Don't major in minors." (My
good friend Bruce, the pastor  (my ONLY "normal" friend) likes using
that expression - "good one"). Get
the important and hard jobs done first. Have a list of things to
do today, prioritise them and get started.

8. Look for short cuts to make things easier for you, ie. work
smarter and not necessarily harder.

9. Learn to take a break. One of the worst time stealers is to be
harassed and tired.  Take frequent cat naps to conserve your energy,
like Winston Churchill and Margaret Thatcher did.

10. Stop day dreaming and just do it.

Finally...

"If you are rich, work.
If you are burdened with
seemingly unfair responsibilities, work.
If you are happy,
continue to work. Idleness gives room for doubts and fears.
If
sorrow overwhelms you and loved ones seem not true, work. If
disappointments come, work.
If faith falters and reason fails,
just work.
When dreams are shattered and hope seems dead, work.
Work as if your life were in peril; It really is.
No matter
what ails you, work.
Work faithfully and work with faith.
Work is the greatest material remedy available.
Work will cure both
mental and physical afflictions.
Work." 
- author unknown

..and keep trusting life (God) and most importantly,

BE HAPPY.
Craig Lock 
Eagle Productions ("Infomation and Inspiration Distributer")

A rather philosophical and deep after-thought,
that I "tort" I'd share these beautiful words with you...

"Time is too slow for those who wait,
too slow for those who fear,
too long for those that grieve,
too short for those who rejoice.
But for those who love,
TIME IS ETERNAL."
-anon

"Eagles may fly high, but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines."

"You can fly with the eagles or scratch with the turkeys?"

About the author:
Craig Lock has written extensively in the field of self   
help. This extract is from his first published book       
HANDBOOK TO SURVIVE - a collection of writings on various      
subjects to help every man or woman survive in a rapidly
changing, uncertain world.

Books* by Craig Lock (including "Handbook to Survive") are available
at:
http://www.craiglock.com/books.html

* Fiction and non-fiction books, novels, travel, humour.

My dear dad, Ray Lock has written an amazing and fascinating book
about his first-hand war time (WWII) experiences, titled "Dorsetshire,
Bismarck and Memories", which is currently being launched in South
Africa.
For further info on this brand new book, click on
http://www.bridgeniche.com/raylock/index.html


P.S: Don't worry about the world ending today... it's already
tomorrow in "little" scenic and tranquil New Zealand 

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Oct 5, 2004
A MATTER OF TRUST

During a flight between New York and Chi­cago, the captain made this
announcement over the plane's intercom: "Our number four engine has
just been shut off because of mechanical trouble. There is nothing to
worry about, however, and we can still fin­ish the flight with just
three engines. Besides, you will be reassured to know that we have
four bishops on board."

An 86-year-old woman called the flight at­tendant and said, "Would you
please tell the captain that I would rather have four engines and
three bish­ops!" Experience taught her to place her trust in the
aircraft rather than passengers -- even if they're bishops!

Experience, likewise, has taught us to be careful of what and whom we
trust. We learn to be careful trusting risky investments, offers to
make easy money, people we don't know, and anything that seems "too
good to be true." We are sometimes even afraid to trust ourselves!

Helen Keller learned a great deal about trust in her life as one who
was both sightless and deaf. She learned to trust people, upon whom
she was often dependent. She learned to trust herself and lived a
highly productive life in spite of her handi­capping
conditions. As a noted writer and thinker, she taught us that trust is
vital to any happy life.

That great woman believed there are four great things to learn in
life. They are:

   To think clearly without hurry or confusion;
   To love everyone sincerely;
   To act in everything with the highest motives;
   To trust God unhesitatingly.

Trust. It is a small word which can make a big difference.

__________

Steve Goodier Publisher@LifeSupportSystem.com is a professional
speaker, consultant and author of numerous books. Visit his site for
more information, or to sign up for his FREE newsletter of Life, Love
and Laughter at http://LifeSupportSystem.com.

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Oct 2, 2004
Asbestos Poisoning Symptoms. Are you at Risk?


400,000 New Yorkers Breathed the most Toxic Pollutant.
Asbestos Poisoning Symptoms. Are you at Risk?
Copyright © 2004 Thelioma.com
http://www.thelioma.com



Recent study of U.S. government provides the latest evidence of
a systematic cover-up of the health toll from pollution after
the 9/11 disaster, which doctors fear will cause more deaths
than the attacks themselves.

Belfast Telegraph says, The Bush administration suppressed
evidence of increasing danger and officially announced that
the air around the felled buildings was "safe to breathe".

But results of the government study, conducted by a consortium
of researchers at Mount Sinai School of Medicine, Columbia
University, New York University, Johns Hopkins University, The
University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey, and the
University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill, show exposure-related
increases in new-onset cough, wheeze, shortness of breath, and
bronchial hyperreactivity more than 2˝ years after the disaster.

Ambient air samples showed that asbestos levels in the WTC area
were initially elevated following the September 11 attacks, but
fell to within federal standards after the first few days.

"More research is needed to determine whether long-term exposure
to asbestos fibers might lead to an increased risk of lung
mesothelioma, a rare cancer that has been linked to asbestos
exposure," said Landrigan. "Previous studies have shown the short
chrysotile fibers found in the WTC dust to be the predominant
fiber in lung mesothelioma tissue."

It is important to note that symptoms of mesothelioma may not
appear until 30-50 years after exposure to asbestos.

Often symptoms of pleural mesothelioma are:

* shortness of breath,
* pain in the chest

Peritoneal mesothelioma symptoms include:

* weight loss,
* abdominal pain,
* swelling,
* bowel obstruction,
* blood clotting,
* anemia,
* fever.

If the cancer has spread beyond the mesothelium to other parts
of the body, symptoms may include pain, trouble swallowing, or
swelling of the neck or face.

It is very important to see a doctor about any of these symptoms.
Only a doctor can make a diagnosis.


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Sep 30, 2004
The Top 10 Ways to Overcome Procrastination

by ADD Management Coach Jennifer Koretsky
© Copyright 2004

When a person is bored or uninterested, certain tasks and
projects can seem like torture! This feeling usually leads
to procrastination, and procrastination often leads to
guilt. Here are some practical ways to avoid these
situations and overcome procrastination:

1. Recharge Daily
Be sure to get enough sleep and rest each day so that you
have the necessary energy you need to accomplish your
tasks.

2. Get a Friend Involved
It's harder to procrastinate when another person is
involved. If you have a task you aren't looking forward to,
invite a friend over to help you out. If you have errands
to run, find a buddy who you can run errands with.

3. Reward Yourself
You're much more likely to complete that boring task if
there is a dinner out or a new CD waiting for you when (and
only when) the task is complete.

4. Do Things in Pieces
Procrastination often comes from feelings of overwhelm.
Break tasks, even small ones, into steps so that they are
manageable and provide you with a sense of direction.

5. Use Music
Turn on some fun and upbeat music and let it pump you up!
80s music and showtunes are often great pick-me-ups that
will give you needed energy to tackle your tasks.

6. Don't Be Afraid to do 2 Things at Once
Don't be afraid to balance routine or monotonous tasks with
something that is more likely to hold your interest. You
can pay bills while you watch TV, or talk on the phone while
cleaning up the house.

7. Delegate
Do you find yourself procrastinating on chores at home like
cleaning and laundry? Or maybe paperwork at the office?
Delegate them! Kids, cleaning people, laundry services,
administrative assistants and more are all available to take
some of those boring tasks off your list and free up your
time for the stuff you'd rather be doing.

8. Prioritize
Perhaps you're procrastinating on a task because it's really
not that important. Maybe you'd love to re-organize your
book shelves, but never get around to it. If it sounds like
a good idea but in the end it's really not that important to
you, don't let it hang over your head.

9. Get in Touch with the End Result
Before you begin a task or project that has high
procrastination potential, get in touch with the outcome.
When the task is finished, what will that mean to you? What
will be better in life as a result?

10. Just Do It!!
Don't think about it too much, just jump in and get it
done!

About the Author:
Jennifer Koretsky is an ADD Management Coach who helps
adults learn how to manage their ADD and move forward in
life. She offers individual and group coaching, workshops,
and skill-building programs. Her work has been featured in
various media, including The New York Times Magazine and The
London Times. Subscribe to Jennifer's free email newsletter,
The ADD Management Guide, by visiting
http://www.ADDmanagement.com/e-newsletter.htm.

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